I am 25M and was pretty insecure as a child and not as confident as what my community men usually are. However, I have grown to be confident and decent guy, stand up for myself and others.
But whenever I come across my extended family, I feel like my 14 year old self. I feel, part of the reason behind that is they treat me like I still am that guy. They make fun of me whenever I do something clumsy or weird and ask me to grow up. However, I am not that guy at all but I become that around them. How not to do so?