I (F-33) went on a date with a guy (38) that I met via this new app where you match and plan a date directly, there is no texting. And as soon as I arrived I saw that he had some unusual movements and traits.. he had crossed eyes and couldn’t keep eye contact, his eyes and head would move rapidly.. something you can’t see from the pictures, and it wasn’t mentioned in his profile. So I was confused.. and I understand it’s shallow to judge people that might have neurological conditions.. but I felt catfished to be honest.
He is relatively a good looking guy, but I couldn’t look him in the eye/s because he kept moving and I couldn’t even tell in which eye I could look into.. so I just gave up trying to make eye contact.
Conversation was ok-ish.. although in his profile he said he is an extrovert, but he had a very hard time to come up with questions, he would only reflect back my questions, and if I wouldn’t talk we would just sit there in silence..
I wonder, would this qualify as catfishing? Because I felt catfished..