If i feel like the other party is being accusatory and making some unwarranted assumption when I tell them my situation, I just dont give fuether explaination because I feel like if I do so I would be 'argumentative' or 'making excuses'
It's something like 'So you skipped A then do B first, thinking A wasn't important. Serves you right being reprimanded'. I would just say nothing because I feel like whatever I say, Id be starting issues or not being accountable by always making excuses
But if they're more inquisitive like 'Im curious, why did you do B first? How did you do B?'. I woule give an explaination that would logically make sense
This applies more to reddit, but Ive also experienced this in real life as well. Its very hard to deal with
I feel like this is not good. I do not defend myaelf and let people embarass me and feel superior for fun