. Ive currently been seeing this guy since May, we matched on hinge. When we first started talking we both said what we wanted which was to get serious with someone no other people in involved etc. we both said we don’t like the whole “roster” thing and we both deleted hinge. Our work schedules are opposites I work from 8AM to 5PM, he works 5PM to 4AM and we are an hour and a half away from each other. Since May we’ve seen each other at least 3 to 4 times a month. After maybe 2 or 3 weeks the communication has been spotty to the point where he almost went a day without hitting me up. I’ve told him numerous or times that I value communication, consistency, and compassion. I’m not asking to talk 25/8 just to just communicate with me. Everytime I bring it up he reassures me and has told me that he’s never been this way before he has “a lot going on”. Am I being played fellas? I feel like male or female if you want to talk to someone you would. F age 27 M age 28