I've come to notice that i'm usually the one that is always thinking about future, planning, and considerate.
One thing that has always bugged me about my boyfriend is how he is usually never able to "plan" there has been several occasions where he has wanted to go somewhere, and he never gets there on time, always blaming it on "why do all these places close so early" and getting upset, in my mind, i'm like "do you not check beforehand at what time they close to prepare yourself?"
I'm usually the one that is "saving" to treat both of ourselves.
I'm the one that is usually putting the thought into the gifts.
I'm the one that is usually always suggesting where we go.
I'm the one that always hints at dates.
I'm the one that quistions why we go sometimes weeks without seeing eachother.
I'm the one that is always taking initiative in serious conversations with us.
One time I briefly told him that I didn't feel like he put much effort into things and he proceeds to get upset and tells me "what else do you want from me, you want alot"
"I call you, check on you, message you"
Am I really asking for alot, or is what he doing already enough?