Earlier my (63M) (Known each other for 15 ish years) step-dad came into my room as he usually does to talk to me, and was saying how I should hang out with him and my mom in the living room more often because that's where they stay and I was like 'I dont want to' because me and them have a rocky relationship, I am planning on moving out when I turn 18 but that's not the main focus.
Also I like it when we just stay out of each others way, anyway so he kept pressuring me about it before leaving and told my (34F) mom (Known for 16 years) 'oh name said she wants us to hang out in her room whenever we want because she misses us'
That is in fact NOT what I said at all not even close and it really frustrates me when he turns my words around to make it seem like I said something that I didn't, as the person that I am, saying no to something in general is very difficult because I don't want to feel like I'm letting people down.
TLDR: Step-Dad pressuring me to hang out with him and my mom while twisting my words to make it seem like I said something I didn't.