Part of me feels for him when he does genuinely take losses with a girl he likes, in other cases I want him to stfu, respectfully.
When most people think of a guy that complains about not getting girls but either 1. doesn’t actually approach and 2. Is picky asf my homeboy is the EXACT prototype of this.
Women actually like him, hell some women in our job literally made a secret “ranking the boys” type list and he was put at one of the very top… literally out of every guy at our job. I’m the literal anti-Christ of these kinds of results. When we’re both out I don’t even exist.
I do genuinely support him and encourage him when he’s trying to get a girl or when he’s feeling bad about his current dating circumstances, but a lot of these are self inflicted. He’s picky to an almost comical degree, he’ll rarely make a move or put himself out there, then he’ll talk to me about how “women don’t like him”… the fuck you mean they don’t like YOU?
To the point where 2 women got mad at him cause he was talking to them at the same time and they happened to be friends. One of them STILL gave him a chance after that if he apologized, which he wouldn’t.
I understand he may have some internal self doubt that may effect the way he thinks despite constant outward validation. I still try to encourage him, but it’s hard for a man with literally NOTHING to genuinely relate to the struggles of a man with so much who’s only real hurdle is self sabotage. I WISH I had odds like his.