TLDR: Do you prefer doing an activity or just drinks for a first date
I’ve hit a bit of a dilemma for dating it seems.
I personally prefer doing an activity for a first date as i find it breaks the ice a little easier.
I usually meet up and we chat for the first 10/15 mins whilst walking to the place so it isn’t straight into the activity.
Anyways, going for just drinks is just a bit boring and i need to travel 1 hour into the city for my dates, so a couple drinks isn’t worth it.
I’m also not a serial dater, so i don’t mind splashing n treating the girl when im only going on 1/2 first dates a month (i personally just don’t have the social battery/time to be dating non stop)
I also make sure we can actually hold a convo online so it isn’t wasted time