I would like to know why in relationships man wants to protect the girl by not sharing his life or true emotions?! how so?
is being sick is weak? speaking emotions are weak? how was a day with other people in normal detailed way is it a weak things?
whenever i ask from my man he say don’t worry, I am doing this and these etc. he always have this “strong” image and doesn’t ruins it even i will be upset about it. it’s like him controlling what i am allowed to see in him.
i just can’t understand time to time am i loving a real man who might feel other feelings too or a performer who wants to have as “powerful soldier” label.
I am doubting at myself, at my relationships, whether i didn’t create enough safe space for him or he only wants someone to praise him?
i’m just confused , please any man can understand what he is doing?