I’ve technically known this guy for 15 years, but we were acquaintances. I met him like 15 years ago, was around him a few times then didn’t see him again for like 13 years.
He is 10 years younger than me, and one of my close friends considers him her little brother. I’m 35F, he’s 25M.
Back in April, we saw each other again at a group outing, got really drunk and ended up hooking up. It was really great but we agreed to keep it a secret because I didn’t think my friend (who considers him her little brother) would approve of us hooking up. I figured she’d be mad at me but wouldn’t be mad at him.
I texted him the next morning and told him, “Last night was super hot. Let me know if you want a repeat.” He just “hearted” the text.
Over the next couple of months, he would hit me up over FB Messenger, weirdly. We were not FB friends. And it was always at 5-6 AM. When I would wake up and respond, I wouldn’t get a message back. Finally one night he messaged me at a reasonable hour and we agreed to meet up that night at a hotel. We hooked up and it was amazing. Intense physical chemistry, lots of talking and laughing too. Vibes were great. He couldn’t take his eyes off of me. He repeatedly told me how sexy I was and how much he loved looking at me. We talked about doing it again.
Also worth noting: he mentioned he still sometimes hooked up with his recent ex and that there were no feelings there (lol).
The following week, I texted him (regular text, not FB messenger) to ask if he’d like to get together again. He didn’t read it. A few days after that, I texted him and said, “I’m surprised I didn’t hear back from you. I was under the impression we enjoyed ourselves. Is something bothering you about the last time we hung out?” Again, left on Delivered.
A few days after that, I checked and I was blocked on FB Messenger. I have to assume I’m blocked via iMessage too.
Why would he do this, despite our in-person interaction going so well? Could it be that he didn’t want to risk upsetting our mutual friend? Could it be he has a girlfriend?
He’s going to have to see me again because we have mutual friends and we have a couple of major events coming up that we’ll both be attending.
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WTF – you were 20 and he was 10 when you got to know each other?
And now, 15 years later you two fuck?
That’s weird af.
Sounds like he was serious with someone and he just wanted to hit it and quit it.
No one in their mid 20s talks or texts like that. You probably gave him the ick, and at the same time, he decided to take his ex seriously and needed to remove any trace of outside flings.