So my wife and I are both pretty busy and we have a 1yr old daughter.
Our sex life isn't bad, there's still plenty of spark left in the bedroom but we are both busy and often find we are horny at different times as well.
She actually bought up the idea of making masturbation to fill the gaps a bit more normal in our house. Basically we both know that the other person is doing it so why hide in the shadows and feel guilty about it?
So we've spoken about making just something fairly normal. Like if you wanna do it in the bed then fine, if you wanna do it in the shower and I walk in on you doing it then fine.
I'm just wondering if any other couples have had this discussion and how you actually manage it in real life?