I have a friend who is an alcoholic. I call him a friend because I like talking to him and we usually have fun together. I call him an alcoholic because he calls him self that and has been to treatment, though relapses.
I feel like he has started to cross a line with me. He has started trying to get me to buy him alcohol, like saying he will make us a meal and asks if I can bring the beer. Or even just flat out asking to borrow money.
He also has started messaging me sexual things (we're both straight men) but then apologizes and says he was drunk. Like he's asked to swap explicit photos for example. I've tried pointing out to him he shouldn't use his alcoholism is an excuses but he says people who think that are ignorant and don't know how hard addition is.
I feel like something needs to change. Should I tell him something like "I'm not going to hangout with you until you tell me what you're going to do differently so this won't happen again", or would that be too aggressive?