I started dating a young woman that I had met at work (but that I don’t work directly with). Things seem to be going really well and I really like her but I am suddenly becoming very cautious because I don’t want to mess it up. I don’t even have much of a history of doing that but I have been ghosted at times when I thought things were going well. I wish I could enjoy this phase and instead I am really apprehensive. Maybe my desire to find the one now needs to be reigned in.