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I’m genuinely curious what everyone’s(male and female) opinions on dating a content creator (nsfw). Why or why not. Are there certain things you would be more open to? Hard no regardless of content?

I did see this was posted a couple years ago and I did read through everything, I’m just curious if that opinion had changed over the years or not.


31 comments

  1. I would prefer not to.

    But if i did, i will be more “okay” if it was photos vs penetration/sex. And i do not want to be involved in said content.

    Only situation ill be okay with penetration/sex is if we were both polygamous. Which currently, i am not.

  3. If her face wasn’t in any of the content and it was solo content, sure. I would make myself available for content with her too.

  4. Under no circumstance. We have different values. If that’s the life she wanted, that’s totally fine. But I’m just not going to be a part of it.

  6. For me personally, there’s a difference between solo creation and them creating content physically with others. I like my romantic partners to be monogamous, even if it’s work. 

  7. I’m really attracted to women who are passionate about developing their skills, whether that’s in STEM, the arts, or other creative and challenging fields. I really admire people who are driven to create, problem solve, or innovate. Because of that, I don’t think I’d be as compatible with someone whose work mainly relies on appearance rather than building those kinds of skills.

  8. I have run across 2 in my dating life (both men, I’m a woman) and even though it was a bit intriguing, it was ultimately a no from me. That industry seems rife with exploitation, and even though they seemed happy in their profession at least one of them sounded like he was groomed into it. When the other talked about his work, it sounded like they were treating him almost like an animal.

  9. kinda depends. does their content make them clearly identifiable, or are they doing sex work with other actors? if so, probably not. otherwise i would say maybe and even participate too haha, but ive also had some scares in the past with sharing videos of myself so maybe not

  10. 25 M

    I would only do it if we were never going to have kids. I can’t imagine the bullying the kids would endure if their peers found out. Also not gonna want her to be with another guy. I would help if my face could be hidden.

  11. I’ve had a friend who was one, its nice sharing hard-to-talk about ideas that only appear it weird and creepy dreams. But her boyfriend didn’t want to fulfil her fantasies in bed, so they eventually split.

    I think this would be a pretty common issues for NSFW creators.

  12. * If she is alone, showing off and doing things to her own body?

    That’s fine, no problem.

    * If she does porn with male actors?

    Hard no.

    * She used to do porn with her ex, and now she wants to do it with me?

    Maybe, lets talk.

  14. I personally would be a very supportive partner. It might be because for me sex doesn’t equal love so I have no concerns with them making NSFW content, but I would require routine communication check ups and just seeing how we’re doing. I would hate it if my partner broke up with me because they didn’t feel attracted to me or didn’t love me anymore because of their work, but I wouldn’t mind them doing their job. Also, I meant being supportive by helping them with pictures or lighting or even collabs.

  17. I’ve dated a lap dancer before, so I’d have no objections morally. As regarding other men seeing her body, you could say that about any woman who has exes. As long as she isn’t actually engaging in any sexual activity with another man, I’d be ok with it.

  23. That’s a definite no for me. I feel that they’re taking money from lonely people and it’s less about adult content than it is about connection and exploiting that for money. If it was just about satisfying an urge, there’s enough free content out there. I also don’t really like to share my partner with anyone, and I date women who feel the same way.

  24. Yes, it is complex to explain. I value good people, and especially good people who value me. I’m not the jealous type, I’m not judgmental, as long as you don’t actually take advantage of people in your job with things like bait and switch or scams (or hurting people, inflicting pain and suffering) I’m good.

    I would date a sex worker (after STD tests) if we clicked. I meet good people everywhere so it isn’t far fetched

  25. Yes. I’m 38, I’m just happy to match with someone who has a job. I’m also kinky so that stuff doesn’t bother me

  26. Yes actually. So long as at the end of the day we wind up in the same space i.e. they aren’t out cheating or something then yeah. If they do porn thats fine so long as they come home when theyre done. If they do stuff like fans sites then ill help shoot the videos or pictures or find people who can. At the end of the day its a job and I couldn’t care less. My partner is my partner, end of sentence.

  27. 32F. Yes, I would, and I’d do it happily. If they are comfortable with their bodies, and others like paying them to look at it and things they do with their bodies and possible toys/other consenting adults, then why would I care?

    As long as they’re coming home with me every night, and they’re faithful, I don’t care if other people get off I’m looking at my significant other.

  28. So for me this is a very interesting question and has a few layers since I live where full service sex work is legal (think escorts and brothels)

    So for me, if they did full service sex work, but retired then I would say yes with caveats, like they don’t have any permanent STI’s (which where I live sex workers have lower STI rates than regular population). And have been on top of doing safer sex etc. former stripping is also included with this.

    If they are currently still doing that work it would be a no. I don’t like sharing and it just wouldn’t work for me. Of course the same standard for me, I don’t like sleeping around if I have a partner nor showing myself off to others either.

    If we are talking about OF it becomes a little more complicated due to images and pictures being available online and people grabbing said images and replicating them elsewhere. Yes it is copyright infringement and I personally don’t really care if people saw old work, but if we were to have kids the bullying aspect would be the hardest angle.

    But again only in the it’s in the past angle. If current that is a maybe, with a very deep conversation and if she is with other guys during shoots or not. If she is with other guys in shoots then it would be a hard no, if solo or with a former partner and now she wants me to help out. That would be a maybe after some more talks assuming no faces are visible.

    If she is an erotica writer or NSFW artist and draws hentai or comics and such. As long as said content is legal I don’t really care if she continues that work while together. If the character is based on her it would be a little different, but I would have the caveat that said character isn’t so detail accurate that people can recognise her from it.

  30. Of course not. In my opinion, it is a shameful act to share one’s body for money. I wouldn’t want to be known as the partner of such a person. Also, this means she exposes something that should remain private between us to the public.

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