I never really go out drinking or partying but a friend and I decided to. I got drunk at a bar waiting for him and some guys I struck up a conversation with said they were going to a club. I've never been dancing and I was still waiting for my friend but I decided to. I decided to just get out and dance, never having danced before, and got a lot of smiles with people and danced with a handful of girls. This one girl seemed interested in me and tried getting me to do a dance move with her but I couldn't understand her because it was so loud, I was a bit drunk, and kept messing up. She tried talking to me but I could hardly hear her because it was so loud and the only thing I remember from the conversation was her asking if I was ok. I ended up moving on from her because the energy didnt feel right for some reason or it was just weird because i kept asking her what she was saying, i cant remember exactly. My friend showed up later and said I was dancing really good and a lot of girls looked interested in me and he was confused why I didnt try to get anyone's number. I think I had a good time because I wasnt focused on trying to meet girls and I just wanted to drink and vibe. I feel like if my goal was to meet girls i would've come off as creepy as I was dancing by myself most of the time with random people for like 20 seconds at a time. My goal was just to dance with people that matched my energy and at the time, maybe it was the alcohol, I wasnt picking up on a girl being really interested. If people turned their bodies away from me or stopped looking towards me I just moved to dance with other people. Is there something I should do differently in the future to connect with people? I know clubs aren't great places to converse, maybe i was subconsciously afraid of rejection and just a bit drunk


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