Any advice or something??? 26m here. Okay so I was bisexual as a teenager. Then I was exclusively gay FOR YEARS. However, I’m noticing I’ve always appreciated women and was very flirtatious especially after a few drinks as I grew older. Still would only have sex with men though… and trans… and non binary… 🤣
Skip to 2025. I am screaming, crying, and throwing up (I'm not really, just being dramatic) because I just started my master's program. On the second day, I see this beautiful woman, and I can’t freaking get her out of my head. I'm crushing hard. I’ve never crushed on a woman this hard. EVER! I’m daydreaming about us being together. I look forward to seeing her and talking to her.
Here’s where I goofed. She mentioned hanging out and stuff and I completely dropped the ball and didn’t even get her number. I just recently got it. Strike 1. We were sharing stories and I slipped up in my story saying that I’m gay when really I’m realizing more bisexual possibly more open than that. Strike 2.
Please this is new to me! Well maybe not new but it’s been a damn long time!! I don’t want strike 3 and I would like to get to know her more. I did finally get another as stated above. I asked her if she wanted to check out a coffee shop or this bar near me and she said she would love to. I’m with my godchildren right now and told her we can plan when not surrounded by three crazy kids. Love them.
If it’s reciprocated then yay but if not I’m not one of those weirdos who wait around waiting for my moment to move in that’s very predatory to me. If we end being just friends then that’s all we’ll be.