For context, we have been dating for 2 and a half years. When we first met, we agreed we would be okay if I have guy friends and he has girl friends. One night there was a girl that called him late at night when we were drinking. He had her on speaker and she was flirting with him saying he was cute. He wasn’t flirting back but he just kept talking to her saying she needed to go to bed. After that day he was aware I did not like he kept the conversation going and could’ve just hung up. There’s been a few other friends that I noticed would give flirty comments to him and he wouldn’t care. I have brought this up to him before and he just says he never notices they flirt or he doesn’t care about them. One co worker I asked him about, he told me he didn’t like her because she was ignoring him and just seemed rude
Fast forward to now, I found out that same girl tried flirting with him and he played video games with her. This was like a week after us being official. I asked him about her today, he said he did think she was rude in person because she was nice when they gamed it but not at work.. he showed me the messages on his phone. He swiped up to a song she posted “banger song” she replies with “I knew you had good taste. Are we still gaming?” They played after that. Idk how the gaming went..
What should I do about this? I know it’s in the past now but I can’t help to think that any girl that flirts with him, he won’t cut off. he’s saying he didn’t flirt back but I’ve also told him I don’t like him entertaining it as in still being friends with them if he obviously knows they are flirting.
I also just feel betrayed knowing most of these “girl friends” were flirting with him and he would let it happen.
TL;DR should i care about my bf letting other girls flirt with him? Or let it go