Hey everyone,
There’s this girl (let’s call her Rup). She’s kinda mysterious and I’m not sure how to read her
Some background: she told me she doesn’t really believe in love anymore and doesn’t want to be in a relationship. From what I understand, she had a past relationship that left her feeling like “love isn’t true.” So she has this whole guarded vibe
Now here’s what happened:
I sent her a follow request, she accepted mine and even sent me one back
I didn’t accept hers right away, I made her wait about a day
She canceled that request.. but then sent it again. That’s when I accepted
That kind of made me feel like she cared whether I followed her back or not
Fast forward to our chat: I playfully said
“Why later? Do you think I’ll fall for you if you introduce yourself now? 😌”
She just replied: “Nhi 😂” (basically “No 😂”).
So I came back with: “Try me.”
Now I’m confused. Is she just being playful and not interested at all, or could this be her way of engaging while still keeping a guard up? Considering her past and the whole “I don’t believe in love” thing, should I keep teasing her lightly, or should I be more genuine and straightforward?
Would love to hear your thoughts – how would you guys interpret this?