Ive always thought I looked my age, but probably might not since im short and dont have a mature looking body. I started thinking maybe this is why guys in my age range dont approach me.
I was on a date with a guy who’s a couple years older than me. He asked me “are you sure you’re 21?” and asked again if im lying since he said i looked “18 or younger”. This also happened with a different guy in my age range on a date awhile back.
Never really thought this would ever be a reason, but now i started thinking about how i might not really look my age face to face. He genuinely seemed weirded out about it (not in a mean way i think) and i keep thinking about it
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Where would you love to be approached? I think guys in general approach less anywhere today than they did in the past
1. Yes. If I thought someone looked young, I might assume they be too young for me (like highschool) and would rather avoid the situation of “I’m 17-”
2. Guys also just don’t approch all that much these days. Guys have been seeing loads of articles and videos online saying “don’t approach us, we want to be left alone”, so Guys took that to heart and stopped approaching