So I (27M) have been in a relationship with my girlfriend (29F) for about 4 months now, and we can have our trials and arguments often but for the most part, we have some of the best of times together. We were coworkers and we ended up getting together, hooking up here and there, and it wasn’t too serious considering our jobs. We ended up being exclusive and things got serious fast, for about a month, but then she confessed to me that she also was seeing another coworker of ours, after saying that she’s been exclusive to me and only me. I was pretty upset about that, but I guess we weren’t “together” so I got over it, even tho it did put a bit of a huge burden on our relationship considering I felt like I couldn’t trust her. He always had it out for me and I always had it out for him.
Time goes by, we have our fights about trust here and there, but like I said, we have some of the best times together. It really does feel like true love and I do love her. But we got into a fight recently and it resulted in a break up over the phone which I didn’t really expect to stick.
Not even an hour after a half assed breakup, I came to find out she ran to the guys house that she was seeing at first. She told me she doesn’t talk to him and they don’t text or anything, other than being cordial at work. She said she showed up at his house because he gives her more comfort than I do and she needs more affection than the average person. giving comfort and affection was never a problem in my past relationships so it’s confusing to me. They apparently didn’t do anything sexual and she seems to be very sorry for it. What should I do? Should I keep trying? Her and I really do have the best of times and it feels really good when we’re together.