Hello gents,
I (27) am looking for some advice, suggestions, and everything in between.
I've come to realise I have chronic indecision. I really struggle to make decisions, and I don't really know why. I'd really love to stop being indecisive and just make decisions quickly and be steadfast, instead of ruminating and over complicating things.
Some examples of decisions I've struggled to make (from menial to life changing)
– where should I have dinner with family?
– what hairstyle should I get? (and end up defaulting to my usual safe haircut)
– should I go book a short flight to visit my friend? (I did eventually, but only after prices went up, rip.)
– should I get circumcised? (it's honestly been on my mind for years, but again the fear of regret really eats into me)
I'm trying to unlearn this trait of mine, as I've been told that after 2 years into my career, I'm going to have to start making project level decisions. I do not want this to hinder my career progression, but also, being indecisive is a huge mental burden all the time. I'd love to be able to decide on something and just do it.
Help?