The other day a girl I knew back in college came to me in a dream, and well, even after a few days I can't get her out of my head now. We were friends but never extremely close, though I'm pretty sure there was some mutual attraction there that we never fully acted on. Life happened, we drifted apart, and I haven't seen her in about 10 years now.
Neither of us are on social media, but I did a little googling and saw she is doing well and just started practicing as a doctor actually. I know reaching out after a decade might seem random and I don't want to come across as that guy who suddenly appears now that she's doing well. I'm usually fine to leave the past in the past, but still I keep thinking about her and if about exploring whether there's something romantic there. I guess what is there to lose? Anyone have a similar experience?