What’s a sexual act that you enjoyed doing with your ex but your current partner isn’t into it?
September 5, 2025
What’s a sexual act that you enjoyed doing with your ex but your current partner isn’t into it?
35 comments
1 2 3.. anal, bj , kissing with tounge
As a single woman that question just unlocked a fear I didn’t know I had
What if I fall madly in love with someone who doesn’t like oral sex?! My worst nightmare 😖
All the butt stuff and sadly cum kissing
Yeah I don’t know what I’d do if I were in that situation.
My exes and I were very vanilla (nothing wrong with that) but my boyfriend now has unlocked some kinks in me and I don’t think I can go back to vanilla.
foot fetish
Having sex with my ex /s
Anal and blow jobs, she’ll do BJ’s but really isn’t into it, and it’s a hard no on anal.
i liked playing with his nipples.
Quickies: the proper real fast ones that require a round two later, because it just leaves you turned on and unsatisfied for a few hours… until you can get them somewhere you can take the time and make up for it.
Quickies…I love a sneaky quickie but so many men think it’s dissapointing if they finish in a few hot minutes..I take it as a huge compliment 😉
Going down on me, butt play, threesomes, borderline public play (outside, but private or car stuff), a big cock, him being hard as soon as I undressed and not losing it, toys. Apparently I really miss the sex.
going down on me, anal, finishing me with the vibrator 😫
My current partner never wants sex at all, so… all of it?
But mostly oral. Most guys just don’t like giving oral.
Oral anal things, roleplay, using a vibrator during, actual dirty talk. It’s still definitely better overall with my current partner, but ya know
Vanilla sex. I miss it.
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I didn’t enjoy sex with my ex. That’s why hes my ex 😂
I really miss oral on me. My ex was amazing at it, took his time and actually liked going down on me. My current partner – it’s not his thing. He says that if we do it all the time that it won’t be special. And when he does do it, he doesn’t take his time. He’s quick about it, sometimes uses his teeth a little because I said I like a little bit of pain, but not down there!
I’d say that it’s apples and oranges.
I was younger with my exes so our bodies were more bendy and curious.
I have better sex currently without trying all the things just to try them. I know what I like, and I hope he does too, and we can build on that.
I’d say blowjobs for pleasure not foreplay’s sake. Oral organisms. Facials. I miss going down on my girl till she can’t cum anymore. I miss long kissing sessions that lead to more. My now person is a quickie person. Sometimes I don’t know how to take it.
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Period sex. My ex was just like, “no worries, let’s just lay down a towel”. Super chill. Haha. New one doesn’t even like squirting (I don’t even squirt) and that’s mostly just water.
Receiving oral
Bondage/bdsm. Hella into it, turns me tf on, but my recent ex partner thought it took too long, and also fkn sucked at foreplay, yet my bf before him was more than happy to do it 🙃
Getting eaten out.
Choking and degrading me 😭
He doesn’t like getting blow jobs 🙁
I had to beg my girlfriend to let me do oral on her for months until she finally gave in and turned out she likes it a lot now. She will only give oral for thirty seconds but will do rimjobs indefinitely which I don’t even want. Never been in this situation.
Pegging 🤣 I used to peg my ex all the time and I LOVED it. My partner now isn’t into butt stuff though, which i respect of course. I don’t mind that I don’t do it anymore. But I do miss it at times haha
Threesomes. I am bisexual. A majority of my past partners were thrilled with the idea. Somehow I married a man who has no interest in being with any woman but me.
Also pegging. My husband won’t let me anywhere near his butt lol
My ex used to take care of me and my whole body for a good hour before he even worried about himself. Massages, oral, toy play, you name it. My current partner started off great and would start with a bit of foreplay, but now he only cares about his own satisfaction and doesn’t even touch or kiss me 😔
Public(-ish) sex
Massages. I love giving Massages but my husband does not. And sorry and everything but I just grew tired of only giving and never receiving.
35 comments
1 2 3.. anal, bj , kissing with tounge
As a single woman that question just unlocked a fear I didn’t know I had
What if I fall madly in love with someone who doesn’t like oral sex?! My worst nightmare 😖
All the butt stuff and sadly cum kissing
Yeah I don’t know what I’d do if I were in that situation.
My exes and I were very vanilla (nothing wrong with that) but my boyfriend now has unlocked some kinks in me and I don’t think I can go back to vanilla.
foot fetish
Having sex with my ex /s
Anal and blow jobs, she’ll do BJ’s but really isn’t into it, and it’s a hard no on anal.
i liked playing with his nipples.
Quickies: the proper real fast ones that require a round two later, because it just leaves you turned on and unsatisfied for a few hours… until you can get them somewhere you can take the time and make up for it.
Quickies…I love a sneaky quickie but so many men think it’s dissapointing if they finish in a few hot minutes..I take it as a huge compliment 😉
Going down on me, butt play, threesomes, borderline public play (outside, but private or car stuff), a big cock, him being hard as soon as I undressed and not losing it, toys. Apparently I really miss the sex.
going down on me, anal, finishing me with the vibrator 😫
My current partner never wants sex at all, so… all of it?
But mostly oral. Most guys just don’t like giving oral.
Oral anal things, roleplay, using a vibrator during, actual dirty talk. It’s still definitely better overall with my current partner, but ya know
Vanilla sex. I miss it.
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I didn’t enjoy sex with my ex. That’s why hes my ex 😂
I really miss oral on me. My ex was amazing at it, took his time and actually liked going down on me. My current partner – it’s not his thing. He says that if we do it all the time that it won’t be special. And when he does do it, he doesn’t take his time. He’s quick about it, sometimes uses his teeth a little because I said I like a little bit of pain, but not down there!
I’d say that it’s apples and oranges.
I was younger with my exes so our bodies were more bendy and curious.
I have better sex currently without trying all the things just to try them. I know what I like, and I hope he does too, and we can build on that.
I’d say blowjobs for pleasure not foreplay’s sake. Oral organisms. Facials. I miss going down on my girl till she can’t cum anymore. I miss long kissing sessions that lead to more. My now person is a quickie person. Sometimes I don’t know how to take it.
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Period sex. My ex was just like, “no worries, let’s just lay down a towel”. Super chill. Haha. New one doesn’t even like squirting (I don’t even squirt) and that’s mostly just water.
Receiving oral
Bondage/bdsm. Hella into it, turns me tf on, but my recent ex partner thought it took too long, and also fkn sucked at foreplay, yet my bf before him was more than happy to do it 🙃
Getting eaten out.
Choking and degrading me 😭
He doesn’t like getting blow jobs 🙁
I had to beg my girlfriend to let me do oral on her for months until she finally gave in and turned out she likes it a lot now. She will only give oral for thirty seconds but will do rimjobs indefinitely which I don’t even want. Never been in this situation.
Pegging 🤣 I used to peg my ex all the time and I LOVED it. My partner now isn’t into butt stuff though, which i respect of course. I don’t mind that I don’t do it anymore. But I do miss it at times haha
Threesomes. I am bisexual. A majority of my past partners were thrilled with the idea. Somehow I married a man who has no interest in being with any woman but me.
Also pegging. My husband won’t let me anywhere near his butt lol
My ex used to take care of me and my whole body for a good hour before he even worried about himself. Massages, oral, toy play, you name it. My current partner started off great and would start with a bit of foreplay, but now he only cares about his own satisfaction and doesn’t even touch or kiss me 😔
Public(-ish) sex
Massages. I love giving Massages but my husband does not. And sorry and everything but I just grew tired of only giving and never receiving.
breathplay
Doing it in the morning and facials