The question that I kept asking myself was I really good enough for her. And if I was really good, why did she let me go? If I poured genuine love onto her, why did she let me go?

She later me told me that she hardly catches feelings for any guy and I should save my time by not pursuing her at all. I will be hurt at the end, she warned me, but I had hope that I might end up different from her Exs.

Now, she has doubled down what she told me. Thought I'll end up victorious, but now I have to let go of her as a looser


10 comments

  1. Next time listen to her when she tells you you are not for her. She was direct and you should accept it.

  2. It wasn’t the fact that you weren’t “good enough” for her, it was simply because of a mismatch. You want a committed relationship. She hardly caught feelings. Try not to internalize rejection. When you start to imagine a life with someone early on without establishing a secure connection, it’s dangerous to start chasing an illusion. Your feelings were real, so imagine having the same for someone who is emotionally available for you. Grieve, and then let it go, but don’t stay there. When someone shows you they’re not ready, you cannot convince them to be ready for you. The pain will pass. May peace rain over you.

  3. Look, if she’s hanging out you, she has some feelings… who care what she says. Women talk a lot of bs.

  4. I mean, she told you directly who she was. You should believe people when they tell you who they are.

  6. dont waste time on something that the other one dont want, you cant force anything so it should be better to just let go instead of making it awkward

  7. It is tough, but it sounds like she was honest about her feelings. Letting go is hard but probably the healthiest choice for both of you.

  8. honestly, yeah like someone says, the moment a girl says such things, it is better to cease almost all efforts… just ends up in situations like you experienced. Looking in economical terms, I think that among girls, love is actually not demanded, so that boys who supply it, end up being in situation like you 🙁

  9. Take what she says at face value, even when she wants the opposite. You’ll dodge bullets that way.

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