Hey ladies, something occurred to me last night while i was stoned and thought i’d share on how women should flirt with men if they want to really get his attention. And like honestly, SO few women do this. Theres only a handful i can think of and they really stick out
So what started this is that this girl that i recently became friends with often comments on things about me like my style, my apartment being “nice and decorative but masculine” and stuff like that. And it really sticks in my head and feels incredibly flattering. Its like shes admiring my masculinity in different ways and that makes me feel very masculine. I dont think shes even flirting that much—shes just very observant like when she tells stories for example, but it makes her very likable and got me thinking about why it sticks out in my mind.
So then I remembered another time where i was at a wine bar talking to a girl who was a friend of a friend and i absentmindedly swirled what was left of my wine and finished it, and she said something like “you did not just do that” and i was like what and she told me and was basically saying it was very suave. It really made me feel very cool and manly and i cant even remember who that was but i remember that complement.
And then when i was young like high school, i remember this one girl who would make me crazy. She was very physically flirtatious but she would also make comments about me being strong or whatever. “Oh your arms are so veiny” that typa shit all the time (she was trouble and broke my heart lol)
But heres the thing: you can make comments like this about anything. It can be so stupid or mundane. Like a guy you like picks up a TV, you mention how strong he is. A guy can grab something, you comment how tall he is. It can be mundane but if you complement him as being manly and take notice, it will be incredibly flattering and get his attention. “Your hands are so big” “you have a very cool masculine style” “how much can you bench? Oh wow!! You could bench me!” Even “You’re suuuch a man” in like a flirty kinda funny way
i mean shit, its too easy
Basically, men want a woman that makes them feel masculine. This doesn’t mean anything weird it just means noticing, complimenting, and expressing that you value him for masculine traits and behaviors