So I have a few new friends who complain about trivial things like they’re too hot or this day is too long or this building is so stupid. It kind of annoys me but to be fair it’s like the third day hanging out with them. And it’s not like a super deep/emotion-dumping complaining if that makes sense? It’s like kind of a joking complaining like they’re doing it to make conversation, in a way. But I don’t like constant complainers so I’m worried I’m going to end up always being quietly annoyed that they are complaining. They seem like nice people but I’m just not a complaining fan. Is there any way that I can like manage this? Like something that I can remind myself or tune it out or ways to steer the conversation in a more positive area? Maybe I’m the problem LOL….


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