18f here, I’ve had ‘boyfriends’ in the past but I was young and stupid and they wasn’t real, I want a relationship and I want to stop getting used for my body and sex, guys think if you go out with them they get to sleep with you and then they just go ghost, I want to make it clear I want a relationship and want to wait without scaring them off, I don’t want them to hear relationship and get scared, am I meant to act like I’m open to anything even if I don’t want to put out for the first few months?
In the past I just would but I’m trying to restrain myself, I want to be loved and appreciated and I know dating apps aren’t exactly the best place to find these people but it must be a place to find them??
I’m just trying to seek some help on what to say to get to the relationship stage without the labels scaring people if that makes sense?
TL;DR 18f needs advice on dating apps