I am part of this club, and one of the guys asked me out. It did not go well, there was zero connection, I left as soon as I could. Problem is, we both love this club. I was homeschooled, so I don't really have any experience with interacting with a group the other person is part of after a failed experience like that. What do you do? I assume you are just polite and avoid bringing up when you went out with the others, right?