tldr: ex situationship moving to my area, want to try again maybe since we're both in a better headspace/more mature but not sure how to navigate the situation because all i know with him is toxic back and fourth. hoping he's changed, i know i have .
some context: in college we were very emotionally attached to each other he would never commit and i would never sleep with him and he def wanted to. but he always stayed (until one night we just both had enough of the situation)
back the he would claim he wanted to commit but he couldn't at the time, like i was someone he would be with just not right then. he was always open and honest about it, but also didn't stop him or me from emotionally investing and playing with each other
now, we've gone no contact and no hard feelings for about 3 years and he's moving around to me area (neither of us are from or lived near this area before, just both happen to have jobs take us to this city). he's also had a relationship during this time but it's over.
he's reached out and we've been flirting and he's coming soon. do i give him another chance? how do i go about this? i don't know how to navigate this, i very much have always wanted another chance with him at a more mature stage in life but idk if he's ready or gonna play with me again.