I had a short reunion with some friends back in highschool including this girl. We were not close back then just an average acquiantance, but she was really nice. I never really paid attention to her back then until now So I asked her out and she said "Yes"
Long-story short, she cancelled the date, said she had something to take care of, I said "sure when you free again?", she said "I'll update you".
A week passed by and Nada, I was beginning lose hope, maybe she wasn't really interested and was just being nice but then she dmed me again apologizing about the delay and telling me that her schedule will be more flexible this week.
So I gave her the benefit of the doubt and said "No problem update me when you're free"… This was 5 days ago🥲
She doesn't reply much when I chat her
Should I keep my hopes up? or just accept that she's not really interested
3 comments
Don’t keep waiting endlessly if she’s genuinely interested, she’ll make time; otherwise, take the hint and move on. Focus on someone who shows equal effort.
Don’t dwell on it, keep doing your own thing.
If she wants to reach out, the ball (to respond) is in her court. Wait another week before asking again if she hasn’t done so, otherwise don’t bother and live your life instead of waiting. Even busy people make time for people they care or are interested about. Who knows, maybe someone else who cares/interests for you comes along instead.
It’s now her turn to ask you out. Don’t wait for it, though. Do your thing and don’t hesitate to meet other women.Â