So I was talking to this girl and trying to get to know them and we see how we vibed together and yeah sure we seem to be getting along pretty well as friends somewhat even if we don't really have anthing in common or any common interests or hobbies.
However she has admitted that while she does want a relationship, I however am just too old for her. She is 21 and I am 28. Apparently even a 6 year difference is too much and they only want I think what like a 2 or 3 difference at most.
Honestly this seems to happen to me a lot. Apparently I need to focus on people more my age but thing is no one my age appeals to me. Like a lot of them have kids or have settled down and stuff but I'm not wanting that with just anyone you know. I want my own kids someday and I've also not been in any relationships or had any kind of romantic or sexual interactions in the past 5 almost 6 years.
No one catches my eye or interest. People tell me I am too shallow or maybe am too picky and the fact I don't like people my age is a problem but idk is it really though?
I need some advice or something because I'm already someone who has been hurt a lot in life and is already hesitant to open up or get close to anyone anymore because I always end up hurting.
The times I do try then one of these situations arise.
Please can someone help. Do I have a problem?