So I (M30) have been dating this girl (F27) for nearly 3 months.
And I have to say, I really thought she might be the one. Everything is perfect with her.
But, a few days ago while talking about family, we had a shocking moment.
We found out that she was dating and hooked up a couple of times with my cousin. This happened 2 years ago. And the worst thing, when this ended, it ended really badly and they had a big fight, so even my cousins parents know about that story, and even my parents know that there was something.
I'm not close to the cousin and we don't really know each other well.
But our families are really close, we even go on vacation every year to the same town at the beach.
So know she has doubts, but, even after saying she hates the guy and thinking he hates her, she would still give us a chance. But according to her, the split up (after 2 months) was really really ugly.
And she is afraid, that there could be problems in my family, like my parents not liking her.
So now I don't know what to do. I'm like crazy about her. But it is a tough situation and story. My family is important to me. And I could get over the thoughts of her hooking up with him.
But it could be awkward.
So what would you do in this situation?
She asked me to not ask the cousin about this, because she thinks it could make it worse.
I do think this could be messy at some point, but I really like here
Would you go on dating? Or should I talk to my parents? I'm really stressed out
Thanks!