So there’s this guy I went on three dates with about two years ago. We also slept together once. Since then, he’s been popping back up in my life on and off. For literally months he’s been liking me on Bumble and Hinge, even though I never match with him. He also has my number and Instagram, but I ignore his texts.
Despite me not engaging, he’s kept at it. And now, after all this time of circling back, he finally asked me to do something… and it’s a Saturday morning walk before he goes into work.
I don’t know why, but it feels a little anticlimactic? Like, years of persistence just to offer me the lowest-effort plan possible. On one hand, I’m curious enough that I agreed to go. On the other, it makes me question what his actual intentions are.
Does this sound like he’s genuinely trying to reconnect, or is this more about him just wanting validation and seeing if I’ll still give him my time