I (25m) have been with my gf (24f) for the past year and a half. From the outside in, there is not a damn thing wrong and almost all of my friends are jealous of our relationship. My gf has the body of a supermodel (not kidding, she has actually been in vogue, and not as a plus size model). however even though I can acknowledge she is pretty, I just am not attracted to her face as much as I would like to be and my heart does not jump for joy when I am with her. It is more comfortable and I enjoy her as a friend. I started dating her immediately after my ex broke up with me, because I have problems being alone and I knew she liked me. It turned out we are very compatible, and she is the first person I’ve been with who I can truly be myself with. I’ve never had a relationship so perfect, but I constantly find myself obsessing about my exes, of whom hardly even liked me looking back. She is head over heels for me, and I am very wish washy. I feel that if someone I trust told me I do not need to think she is the most beautiful face in the world, and I don’t need to be enamored with the time we spend, I could get over this and have a wonderful life with her. But I have this nagging voice. Any advice?


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