I first met this one guy on Hinge months ago, but he's been kinda weird and an asshole from the start (invites me to his house on the 2nd date for a "chill date", then ghosts me for 1-2 months and comes back pretending he "thought he replied". I gave him the benefit of the doubt at first because he did seem innocent enough in person and he was cool with going out and doing stuff and we started texting more. Then the last time I saw him at the end of July, he got argumentative/bothered with me because he didn't like two of my opinions on his favorite artists (they're really popular, and all I said was that they're corny and overrated, nothing worse). After we hungout that day, I messaged him 3-4 times and he didn't reply to any of them. And then he randomly messages after a month like nothing happened.
At this point, I'm kinda done with him and I say a couple VERY rude things (about his dick..) AND I KNOW THAT SOUNDS TERRIBLE but the ghosting made me feel bad so it was only fair I got to make him feel bad too. So now I'm worried if I get back on hinge, he's going to see my profile on his feed and report me. It's really hard for me to meet people organically in my town so apps are the only thing I got, so that'd be pretty bad because if you report someone, it can get their profile banned. What should I do?
I was honestly thinking of messaging him again and just being straight up that he's flakey as hell so he knows at least where my insults were coming from, but I don't know. Thoughts?