So I met this girl in a social party and at first, we never really talked. My friend was talking with her and I tried to intervene but the talk was not so smooth so I just bailed. But then again in another night inside a club, I coincidentally met her again. I just said fuck it and striked a convo and surprisingly I got her number somehow(I was drunk so not sure how I ended up with a number tbh).
So we kept texting back and forth and I figured out she was actually an organizer of some social gathering. I made my friend join there and we had a good time as a group. We didn't talk that much in person but we were teasing each other in texts lol.
But the days after that, the texting seemed to get slow, and we started to talk less so I said again fuck it and told her if she wanted to have a drink together and she said she was busy this week but got a fixed plan next week. At this point I wasn't sure if she was really interested in me since we barely texted and she and I had like 8+ years of age difference(She was a uni freshmen while I'm a grown ass office worker).
So today we met and we were awkward at first cos I was so worried that I might say dumb shit and she will think of me as a boomer type shit. But she kept reciprocating well to my surprise so I kept pushing it. We talked about life and struggles and figured out we had a really similar past. She seemed so wise for her age so I kept complimenting on that.
I ended up buying her the dinner, but then she told me she wanted to give me a gift. I told her it's okay, you can buy me a dinner next time but she kept insisting that she will buy me a gift and will pay for the next one. I was kinda confused at this point but okay? We went inside a cafe and she bought me a whole 3 slices of cakes! I said omg this is too much but was so nice of her.
We ended up spending a little more in the cafe and noticed we both love coffee so we promised to visit my favorite cafe for coffee tasting next time.
So now I feel very good but also still confused if she's really interested in me. Cos firstly, we have a huge age gap and I'm not sure if she met me as a date. Secondly, she is very focused on her social gathering organizing so she might've just met me to promote her place more. Thirdly, she mentioned that she values her friend more than her relationships so if she would be in a relationship, she has to meet a guy who would make her switch up this priority, which I found it a little bit hard thing to do.
So I guess I still need to meet her more to figure things out but what do you all think? Do you think this might have a good outcome? Is she interested in me?