I’ve been seeing this guy for a month now. We are exclusive since the (I think) second date. We didn’t kiss until our fourth date. We’ve been on seven dates so far. He’s traveling right now and will be gone for a month. The first week of him traveling we were texting back and worth but not calling. I told him I wanted to call and talk over the phone but he was like I’m pretty busy. Then finally we made time for a call later in the week. However, the energy honestly had dipped. There were moments of silence where there weren’t before and I would cover it up by yapping like I always do. But he asked me a total of one question during the entire conversation.
Also, he told me he was deliberating moving to one of the countries he traveled to. I questioned him about it on the call in a joking way and he seemed pretty serious about thinking about it. He quickly changed topics though after I asserted I’m not someone who can do LDR.
Then I messaged him a couple hours later after our phone call telling him I felt distance between us and I wanted to know where his head was at about everything because I felt confused. He basically said in one message that he didn’t feel that during our call and that we should talk about it after he comes back home.
Like what? He just brushed aside my feelings imo. I just responded with a thumbs up but idk if there’s anything more I can communicate here because I’m honestly starting to lose feelings over this… I’ve never been in a relationship btw so please be merciful towards me.