Like some of them don’t respond to texts and then like 10 days later check in with you about their event. Some of them don’t invite me to their birthday parties, feels like they don’t want to mix their friend groups or whatever. I have done the same thing but I didn’t have a party and exclude someone. This one friend of mine … every time I would ask her if she wanted to hang out, she’d say “Friday is not for sure, I’ll let you know” because she was waiting to see if she was gonna go climbing every week and if that didn’t happen then she would be available, putting me on a back burner. Never said all her weekends are basically busy and didn’t propose another day 🤷🏻♀️Other friends I have barely ever text me unless I text them. And it’s like I attract people w behavioral issues. Like even in my classes I’ve been going for a couple of years, the guy I kinda became friends-ish with is condescending and makes the weirdest comments and constantly mansplains every time I see him. I guess I’m not cool enough to find cool people? I don’t have enough money and my studio is small so there is that. And also I’m originally from outside the US so I have a little accent, maybe that annoys people? Who the fuck knows lol
Any advice to find friends that are more committed and have more follow through?