I (28F) him (28M) are about to hit 7 months this month and we both had our tastes of problematic relationships (and we both recognize how we were the problem in those relationships too). He calls us medium distance as we live too far to see each other every weekend (financially infeasible), but close enough to hop a train and be there in less than 3 hours.
And it just feels right
Progression and just the overall hard talks, talking about sharing keys, and long term goals (as relocation for one of us would be necessary).
I stayed with him for two weeks as I am a teacher and didn’t think of a better way to spend the remainder of my summer. And in those two weeks we had those conversations, opened up about our past selves, and what we learned in our previous relationships. And we have each met our respective parents.
I remember avoiding those conversations in previous relationships and feeling exhausted after having them. But with him, it feels natural. Just wanted to share the update as I posted here before complaining about the lack of luck in the dating pool.
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Congratulations. Hope things work out..
Congrats babe keep updating us with your progress
It might take some effort with the distance and all, but you can make it work. If you believe that’s your guy, it will work out.