Me and my gf have yet to have sex and im really thinking ill never figure things out at this point. I really love her but i know she wants sex badly and so do i. We fool arround and i eat her and it is fun but i know she wants more. I for the life of me cant stay hard and get inside her and it makes me feel terrible. Ive tried all the advice short of drugs and therapy which arent an option for me anytime soon.
As much as it kills me im wondering if it is the noble thing to break things off so she can find someone better. I feel like if i stay she will enevitably grow to resent me over months and years of sexual failure. She is so sweet and loves me but over time idk how that can possibly remain true if i cant eventually provide for her. I know there is more to a realtionship than sex but it is still a factor.