Hello,

Just thought I'd share this with you, be interested to get other opinions on this. I was DJing at a dating event recently held in Cardiff, in the UK. It was ran by a quite a successful company and matched people based on their Al Gore Rhythms – People who can dance like Al Gore at parties and other get togethers. Mainly for heterosexual dating aged between 20-40. Couple of things I noticed :-

  1. The people who actually to go these completely alone (not with a supportive friend, or single friend) have an unbelievable amount of courage. I've done stand-up comedy before and wouldn't find it as nerve-wracking as this experience.

  2. My DJ partner and I (both single males) met the organizer's sister who was running the evening. She said something really interesting things about what she noticed about these events. She said that there's normally 1-2 men who are very good looking that get the most attention. They often say something like "to be honest I'm not really sure what I'm looking for" which then gets them even more attention from women based on their apparent lethargy. She also said that the men who appear to give less of a f*ck about whether they find someone or not whether in dating events, or indeed in life, are instantly more attractive to women.

(This kind, informative lady ended up getting really drunk and going home with my DJ friend who is good looking, single and really doesn't care about women so I suppose there's something in that)

From a woman's perspective – Is there any truth in that? The less you care the more attractive you are in dating events / the early part of dating?


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