I lost my sex drive about 4 years ago out of the blue, ever since then, mentally I can be in the mood very rarely but physically it seems impossible.. sex has become extremely painful anymore arguably due to the lack of it. But also it burns inside even if there’s no friction. So I tried lube. Ever brand you can imagine. They ALL BURN the second they make contact with intimate areas. Any advice is helpful I’m really starting to struggle.
My other issue to coincide this is that the lower part of my vaginal opening tears every time I try penetration. And then that makes the pain worse. I’m at a loss
Also I am extremely attracted to my male partner and he makes me the happiest person in the world. So I know it has nothing to do with attraction or displeasure.
TIA!