I was supposed to fly to him on Wednesday afternoon. This was planned out a month ago. We’ve seen each other a handful of times while he was visiting and vibed really well. We kept the communication going. We planned for me to go visit a month prior. He went MIA a few days ago, once I was finally able to get to him he ended up telling me he wasn’t sure we would be able to continue with our plans. He was going to look into his bills and see. He finally got to me today a few hours ago telling me he did his finances and he’s broke. But it’s up to me if I still want to go that he would just have to work a few hours while I’m visiting. I’m pretty upset bc I feel like it was so inconsiderate to let someone know this close to the plans that it’s not a good idea. I understand things happen but even still why not do it a week ago or 2. Now he wants to plan something again but I’m now hesitant. Mind you we’re not official but are exclusive. I feel like this it just a big roller coaster for someone I don’t have anything established with. (We’re 20 hours from each other)