My gf and have always been fairly tender together, we both enjoy the emotional intimacy and slow passion, she also really enjoys taking from behind and slowly leads into faster pace and things getting more intense.
I brought up if she liked a bit more aggression, like hair pulling and spanking which she said she did like it and does enjoy being a bit rough. But didn’t really say what she wanted or how rough.
What are some things to introduce and try that aren’t too extreme?
I will likely discuss more with her in the near future, but I’d like some ideas of what to try/run by her and see if she might enjoy.