Okay, before someone says, "that's called an orgasm, dude," I mean the day or three after.

I don't know how else to explain it. I already struggle with being comfortable enough to have sex with another person, and everytime I do finally feel comfortable I feel so weird after. Like, initially there's the orgasm high and all is good and I'm sleepy and everything is fine. But then the next day I feel like I did something wrong? Like, I ruined their life? Like I'm the worst person ever? Like there's a pit in my stomach and my brain is freaking out and the world is ending.

My partner's have never done anything to make me feel that way, either. It's just…me and it's strange.

Does anyone have advice? I'd love to not freak out for several days after sex.


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