I guess I’m just curious if anyone else has this problem and how to solve it.
I have no issue orgasming during sex. It’s not uncommon for me to have somewhere between 4 and 10 orgasms when I have sex and it’s actually very weird for me to have less than 3. What determines that number is how much foreplay was had, the quality of said foreplay, and the positions during penetration of course.
Now what pushes me into 10+ territory consistently is being on top. Idk what it is because I don’t do anything special? And even if I’m being drilled from the bottom (so I have no control over the pace or angle or anything) the same thing happens, if anything even more because the other person keeps going even while I’m finishing.
These orgasms are super intense too, and usually back to back. Sometimes it feels like the next orgasm starts before the previous one is over. It’s very overwhelming and while it is fun, I do feel bad for my bf.
The intensity of these orgasms is overwhelming (like I’ve admittedly cried while riding because it was so much and it wouldn’t stop) so I feel like it’s hard to keep riding through them. So while sometimes I am just up there being selfish and don’t feel bad at all lol other times I do feel like I worry about it not being good for him because he’ll be close but then I cum again and it cuts him off.
He still asks me to ride all the time though. He says he gets off on seeing me have a hard time and he does look at me like I’m a Goddess while I’m up there lol. But I do wish I could make it better for him physically. I feel bad when he says “don’t stop” and I either stop or can’t maintain the same pace during my orgasm. Or when he’s having fun and I have to switch positions because I can’t take it anymore. I’m sure he’s been with people that could take it like a champ and I just wish that could be me at least sometimes.
Anyways, does anyone else have this problem? Or does anyone have insight as to why it happens or how I could make myself last longer on top?
TL;DR: I cum too quick and too often when I’m on top. They’re really intense and it makes me stop the flow of riding. I want to know if anyone else has this issue, why it could be that way, and how to fix it so my bf can hopefully enjoy it more.