We have a great family, we have fun, we have the same ambitions in life etc, but we are on different pages sexually. I am open to anything and everything and get bored easily. They enjoy PIV sex and pretty much doesn’t put in effort. When ever I ask for something different I am turned down for various reasons and my requests get labeled as expectations. I go out of my way to do things without asking, take care of the kids, cook, clean, give back massages and I do it because I enjoy making them happy. I don’t feel expected of it. I don’t want them to feel expected of giving me different forms of intimacy, but I want them to feel the same way I do when I do something that may not necessarily benefit myself. Help lol