My colleague and I had a thing (on and off) for a couple months. It was kinda ambiguous and confusing for both of us I think, we both had some « toxic » behaviours.
Last time something happened between us was about 3 months ago, but even after that we kept giving subtle signs to each other (especially him).
We hadn’t work together in a long time and the other day we had to work together. I didn’t wanna talk to him because I was mad, so I spoke to him when I had to but stayed very cold. Later in the day he mentioned that he was leaving work in a week and moving a few hours away. Even if I was mad at him it made me really sad but I didn’t wanna show it.
The next day we worked together again. I wasn’t cold this time because I knew he was leaving and didn’t want us to be in bad terms. At some point I just said that I was tired and he said « you looked even more tired yesterday. Almost mad ». I said that I was just tired. And he insisted « Oh really? Because I really thought you looked mad », I said no. He insisted again and said he didn’t believe me.
The fact that he asked this and insisted so much makes me think he would be open or want to talk about what happened?
I’ve been wanting to talk about this whole situation with him for a long time, but thought he just didn’t care so there was no point.
But maybe him insisting so much on if I was mad or not was a way to show he wanted to talk about it?
I don’t know what to do..