Looking for some advice, not necessarily on how to get started. In my last relationship while I never had a formal contract or called what we used a collar, my relationship mirrored BDSM quite closely and the kink lifestyle. My new partner is interested in doing it properly and so am I But honestly I’m a bit nervous transitioning into something so formal. Like in the past, it was very clear roles, and a bracelet that really was a collar. I just never knew as much about the lifestyle and didn’t know that’s what it really was for us but looking back it makes more sense now.
I’m honestly looking for a little bit of help and started, my sub has ADHD, which is nothing I haven’t dealt with in others in the past, but I’ve always found it a bit tough because they’re always a little brighter and can be a bit less responsive to following Even when it’s something that they want. I think a contract with clear roles would probably mitigate that. As well as some more conversations around the line between kink and not.
Been doing a listening to a good amount of podcast and found a YouTuber as well, just looking for any tips or resources
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Post title: Look into formally into a Dom sub relationship
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Looking for some advice, not necessarily on how to get started. In my last relationship while I never had a formal contract or called what we used a collar, my relationship mirrored BDSM quite closely and the kink lifestyle. My new partner is interested in doing it properly and so am I But honestly I’m a bit nervous transitioning into something so formal. Like in the past, it was very clear roles, and a bracelet that really was a collar. I just never knew as much about the lifestyle and didn’t know that’s what it really was for us but looking back it makes more sense now.
I’m honestly looking for a little bit of help and started, my sub has ADHD, which is nothing I haven’t dealt with in others in the past, but I’ve always found it a bit tough because they’re always a little brighter and can be a bit less responsive to following Even when it’s something that they want. I think a contract with clear roles would probably mitigate that. As well as some more conversations around the line between kink and not.
Been doing a listening to a good amount of podcast and found a YouTuber as well, just looking for any tips or resources
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