Background married 20+ years. Wife is upset because I don’t alway cum anymore and if she cums and is finished I’m ok with stopping. For reference she hasn’t finished sometimes either in our decades long relationship and I mentioned as much and she says that’s different. Umm how? Any advise on this from others who have been where we are? I faked one and got caught so that was a bad choice. She is one round and over so keeping going is not on the table or the couch or the bed.